Talatpa\u015fa Mahallesi’nde oturan tekel bayisi sahibi \u00d6mer Tik ile A.T. 11 Eyl\u00fcl’de evlendi. \u0130ddiaya g\u00f6re \u00e7iftin balay\u0131ndan d\u00f6nmesinin ard\u0131ndan ailede s\u0131k s\u0131k damat kay\u0131nvalide tart\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ya\u015fand\u0131. Evliliklerine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtti\u011fi kay\u0131nvalidesinden gelen mesajlara k\u0131zan \u00d6mer Tik, e\u015fi A.T. ile tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra evden ayr\u0131larak ablas\u0131nda kald\u0131. Kocas\u0131n\u0131n bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00f6fkelenen 25 g\u00fcnl\u00fck gelin A.T., evdeki koltuklar\u0131 b\u0131\u00e7akla delik de\u015fik ettikten sonra e\u015fyalar\u0131 da\u011f\u0131t\u0131p evi terk etti. E\u015fi A.T.’nin “Koltuklar\u0131 par\u00e7alad\u0131m” \u015feklindeki mesaj\u0131 \u00fczerine evine giden \u00d6mer Tik, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc manzara kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u015fokunu ya\u015fad\u0131. \u00d6mer Tik, bunun \u00fczerine e\u015fi hakk\u0131nda bo\u015fanma davas\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildirdi.<\/p>\n
“KOLTUKLARIN PARAMPAR\u00c7A OLDU\u011eUNU, EV\u0130N DARMADA\u011eIN OLDU\u011eUNU G\u00d6RD\u00dcM”<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00d6mer Tik, “3 y\u0131ll\u0131k bir tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131, s\u00f6zlendik, bir ay sonra o s\u00f6z at\u0131ld\u0131. Bir, bir bu\u00e7uk sene ayr\u0131 kald\u0131k, sonras\u0131nda ise bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. O d\u00f6nemde de annesinin m\u00fcdahalesi s\u00f6z konusuydu, bana bir daha ya\u015fanmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi, ben de inand\u0131m, b\u00f6ylece bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131k ve evlenme karar\u0131 ald\u0131k. Evlilik s\u00fcrecimiz ba\u015flad\u0131, balay\u0131ndan d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra annesinin bize ve evimize s\u00fcrekli m\u00fcdahalesi ba\u015flad\u0131. Bir ak\u015fam i\u015ften eve gitti\u011fimde, e\u015fimin telefonunda kay\u0131nvalidemden bana ve aileme hakaret i\u00e7eren mesajlar g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. E\u015fime d\u00f6n\u00fcp sordu\u011fumda ba\u015fka bir odaya ge\u00e7erek a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131 ve annesini arad\u0131, ‘Ben gitmek istiyorum.’, ‘Gelin beni al\u0131n’ diye konu\u015ftu. Ben duruma sinirlendim ve moralim, psikolojim bozuldu, evden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m. \u00d6nce d\u00fckkan\u0131ma geldim sonra ablama gittim ve ablamda kald\u0131m. Sabah telefonumu a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ‘Koltuklar\u0131 par\u00e7alad\u0131m gel’ mesaj\u0131 ald\u0131m, hayat\u0131m\u0131n \u015fokunu ya\u015fad\u0131m. Evin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131mda koltuklar\u0131n parampar\u00e7a oldu\u011funu, yata\u011f\u0131n, evin, e\u015fyalar\u0131n darmada\u011f\u0131n oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fcm” dedi.<\/p>\n “SEVG\u0130 B\u0130Z\u0130 BAZEN K\u00d6R ED\u0130YOR”<\/strong><\/p>\n Maddi zarara u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten \u00d6mer Tik, “Bo\u015fanmak istiyorum, bir an \u00f6nce bu durumdan kurtulmak istiyorum. Yeni \u00e7iftlere de tavsiye de bulunmak istiyorum. Ailemi ben ikna etmi\u015ftim. Ger\u00e7ekten sevgi; tamam sevgi ama ailenin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc de dinlemek gerekiyormu\u015f. Sevgi bizi bazen k\u00f6r ediyor, bazen susturuyor, ailenin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn de dinlenmesi gerekiyor. Bo\u015fanmak istiyorum, s\u00fcre\u00e7ten kurtulmak istiyorum, \u015fikayet\u00e7iyim, davac\u0131y\u0131m, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan sa\u00e7lar\u0131m d\u00f6k\u00fclmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Tak\u0131lan alt\u0131nlar, kolyeler en az 150 bin lira eder, koltuk tak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n hala taksitlerini \u00f6d\u00fcyorum 30 bin liraya alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Evde ise kirac\u0131yd\u0131k, ben bo\u015fanma davas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131p \u015fikayet\u00e7i olunca evi de kapatt\u0131m. Eve de gitmek istemedim. Kira \u00f6demek istemedim, sonu\u00e7ta evim yuvam y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131, e\u015fim terk etti gitti. E\u015fyalar\u0131 depoya kald\u0131rd\u0131m, bir an \u00f6nce kurtulmak istiyorum” \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n E\u015finin iddialar\u0131 \u00fczerine DHA muhabirinin telefonla ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 A.T. ise konuyla ilgili konu\u015fmak istemedi\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Esenyurt’ta, kay\u0131nvalidesinin evliliklerine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iddia eden \u00d6mer Tik, e\u015fiyle tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra ablas\u0131na gitti. Buna \u00f6fkelenen 25 g\u00fcnl\u00fck gelin A.T., iddiaya g\u00f6re evdeki koltuklar\u0131 b\u0131\u00e7akla par\u00e7alay\u0131p e\u015fyalar\u0131 da\u011f\u0131tt\u0131ktan sonra evi terk etti. \u00d6mer Tik, bunun \u00fczerine e\u015fine bo\u015fanma davas\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":17137,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[1566,1256,73],"class_list":["post-17135","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-istanbul","tag-ev","tag-gelin","tag-manset"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17135","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17135"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17135\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17138,"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17135\/revisions\/17138"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17137"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17135"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17135"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ihm.tr\/tr-int\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17135"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}